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r h ou rs o n e n d w hile t h eir n eth er r e g io n s a re g ettin g
so m e lip s e rv ic e
. O th ers lik e o ra l s e x a s p art o f a n e ve n in g o f
activ it ie s
, b efo re o r a fte r a n oth er ty p e o f s e xu al a d ve n tu re
. A nd
oth ers d on ’t lik e r e ce iv in g o ra l a t a ll
, in a n y w ay
, s h ap e
, o r f o rm
.
So w hat’s th e b est w ay to fi gure o u t w hat y o u r p artn er w an ts in
re g ard t o o ra l? A sk ! C om munic a tio n is k ey
, a n d it ’s a s u re fi re w ay
to g iv e y o u r p artn er th e b est p ossib le p le asu re
, b ase d o n w hat
th ey lik e a n d d on ’t lik e
, w an t a n d d on ’t w an t
.
Yo u m ay w an t t o b rin g u p b ad e xp erie n ce s w it h s e x
, w heth er it ’s

re ce iv in g cu nnilin gus or se xu al in te ra ctio n in gen era l
. Som e
peop le m ay h ave h ad a p artn er t h ey d id n’t t r u st o r s o m eth in g t h at
j ust p hysic a lly d id n’t f e el g ood
. T hey m ig ht b e a s u rv iv o r o f s e xu al
co erc io n o r a ssa u lt
. If so
, le ttin g th em ta lk a b ou t th eir w an ts
,
need s
, c o n ce rn s
, a n d lim it s is a g re at w ay t o f ig ure o u t w here t h ey
are on re ce iv in g cu nnilin gus
. It’s possib le th at th ey m ig ht be
in te re ste d in h avin g y o u g o d ow n o n t h em
, b ut a re u nsu re h ow t o
ask f o r it
, h ow t h ey m ig ht r e act
, o r h ow t h ey m ig ht f e el if t h ey d o
en
j oy it
.
Gettin g t h ese c o n ce rn s o u t in t h e o p en a llo w s y o u b oth t o c o m e
up w it h p la n s fo r a n y a n d a ll p ossib le o u tc o m es
, a n d fo r y o u to
re assu re yo u r partn er of yo u r ca rin g an d su pport
. It’s als o
possib le th at th ey’r e
j ust not dow n w it h yo u goin g dow n
, fo r
whate ve r r e aso n
. A s I s a id a b ove
, it ’s n eve r