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fe el a s if th ey m ust re ach th is so cia lly
cre ate d o rg asm ic p la ce
, a n d t h e p ers o n p ro vid in g t h e o ra l s e x c a n
fo cu s o n p ro vid in g p le asu re to th eir p artn er in ste ad o f h ead in g
to w ard s o m e r a n dom ly d escrib ed g oal
. If o rg asm h ap pen s
, th en
gre at
. . . b ut if th ey d on ’t
, it d oesn ’t m ean th at a n yo n e’s fa ile d
.
Rem em ber
, w it h s e x
, f u n s h ou ld b e t h e n am e o f t h e g am e!
Gra n te d
, n ot e ve ry o n e lik es r e ce iv in g o ra l s e x
. S om e p eop le fi nd
th e stim ula tio n to o lig ht fo r th em
, oth ers pre fe r diff ere n t
activ it ie s
, an d so m e m ay have had a bad exp erie n ce w it h a
pre vio u s p artn er
. I t’s a ls o p ossib le t h at s o m eon e’s d is lik e o f o ra l
se x m ay b e c u lt u ra lly b ase d
. I f y o u ’r e s e t o n g oin g d ow nto w n
, a n d
yo u r p artn er is n ’t in to it
, y o u c a n a sk w hy
. M ayb e t h ey’r e w orrie d
ab ou t th e w ay th ey ta ste
, a n d th at c a n b e a n e asy fi x
( se e M yth
TK
).
B ut if th ey d on ’t w an t y o u to g o d ow n o n th em
, th ey d on ’t
wan t it
, a n d it ’s a b so lu te ly n ot O K t o a rg ue w it h o r c o n vin ce t h em
oth erw is e
. T ak e a ll o f th at fa b ulo u s s e xu al p le asu re e n erg y a n d
work o n cre atin g a p le asu ra b le sit u atio n a s p art o f a d iff ere n t
se xu al a ctiv it y ! F ig ure o u t w hat o th er k in d o f s e xu al in te ra ctio n
yo u b oth e n
j oy
, a n d w ork o n g ettin g p le asu re t o h ap pen t h at w ay
.

MYT H
: E ve ry w om an lo ve s g ettin g c u nnilin gus f o r h ou rs
.
BU ST ED
: Eve ry o n e’s se xu al pre fe re n ce s are diff ere n t
. Som e
peop le L O VE re ce iv in g ora l an d are as h ap py as a cla m
( pun
in te n ded
) f o