David Micheals When a Man makes Love to a Woman | Page 6

God,
based on the word of God, who works as an accountant, you will
remain a child of God whether you loose your job or keep it.

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_________________________________________________________________________________________ You make the choice of your perceptions and these per-
ceptions eventually become conditional or automatic. The atmos-
phere of your home and everything you subject yourself to will
greatly affect your perceptions. Be selective with the type of peo-
ple and multimedia you and your lover expose yourselves to. If
trash goes in, trash will come out, and the last place you want it to
come out is during lovemaking.

Your sex life and relationships with everyone close to you
will also depend on how you perceive yourself and your life. You
may have been taught or are in the habit of negatively viewing
certain situations, so you may have to recondition your mind and
guard your thoughts to be a more positive, confident person.
Regular physical activity or exercise will enable your brain to be
in an ideal state for positive conditioning and reconditioning


Let me mention a couple of things just to get you geared
up to receive the importance of being in control of your mind and
your perceptions.

qYour thoughts control your brain and your brain controls your
body. You must learn to control your thoughts or “self”.
Aside from reflex reaction, you are 100% in control of your-
self and body unless you have subjected yourself to worry and
negative thought conditioning.

qHow you view your past can influence your present actions
and reactions, consciencely and unconsciencely. In other
words what you decide to do at a given moment is based on
your past and/or present knowledge of certain situations or ex-
periences, which will sometimes be pre-meditated, sometimes
reactive (from past) and sometimes habitual.

qThe ability to harness, channel and control your thoughts and
sexual energy will enable you to better sex.

15 Mind and Body
_________________________________________________________________________________________ qOptimizing your physical, mental and spiritual condition will
in turn optimize your ability to channel and control your
thoughts and sexual energy. It is equally important to opti-
mize the attitude that you have toward life as a whole, which
may determine the conclusion of your experience.

Simplified: Healthy thoughts and relationships will help you be
experience sex to it’s fullest.

I am not going to go in depth about relationships, nor will
I try to explain how life works, but I will talk about how it can re-
late to sex and try to give you some very useful tips.


Sex and the Brain

Sexual energy is its own type of energy. It is physical,
mental and spiritual and can sometimes feel uncontrollable and
mystical. Uncontrollable in the sense that your desires can be
overwhelming as your thoughts may become foreign, not know-
ing exactly why you think what you do. Mystical in that it is in-
tangible, like the wind, coming from nowhere, stirring your being
then subsiding to a nothingness. Nobody will ever be able to de-
scribe or quantify human sexuality with a conclusion. It is all part
of enjoying the unbounded realms of life and love.

Sexual energy can be a blessing or a curse to you or to your
lover. It can be mentally or physically painful or pleasurable de-
pending on your experience. Therefore, be willing to take a
never-ending journey as you learn and experience who you and
your lover are in your sexuality.

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_________________________________________________________________________________________ Brain Energy

You must have energy to have sex and the four places
your body will get its energy is: thought from your "self", oxygen
from your lungs, food from your diet and fat from your body.
Since it takes an average of 20 minutes of a certain amount of
sustained activity to use fat energy, you will primarily draw en-
ergy from thought, breathing and whatever is in you stomach.
Yes, thought is energy and can cause more energy to occur. It can
be the spark and the reigns of life. It can be so powerful that you
will become what you think or believe.

The brain controls your bodily functions and reactions, in-
cluding what happens during sex. It will automatically orchestrate
different types of energy through your nervous system to different
parts of the body. Such is true with the skin, under certain condi-
tions, reacting