David Micheals When a Man makes Love to a Woman | Page 5

Introduction
_________________________________________________________________________________________ have personal boundaries. One should keep an open mind about
experiencing new pleasures in sex for as long as one lives.

There are no guarantees in life just as there are no guaran-
tees in lovemaking. I cannot guarantee that you will perform a
certain way or will get the reaction out of your lover that you are
looking for, but I can teach you what I know to better your per-
formance and get reactions that may surpass your wildest expec-
tations. Remember, just as life goes through cycles, so will your
lovemaking. It is simply an extension of life itself.

Before I explain any sexual techniques and methods I
want to prepare you so you will receive them with an open, clear
mind. Some of the sexual techniques and methods in this book are
very powerful and could be damaging to yourself or your lover if
used abusively or by one with an unstable mind. How could it be
damaging? I will later teach men several methods that should en-
able them to have sex for as long as they want; therefore, they
could physically or emotionally damage their lover without
proper lubrication and love. As you learn and try the methods and
techniques contained in this book, keep in mind that communica-
tion with your lover is very crucial to enhancing your sex life to-
gether.


Her Trust In You

She may have preconceptions that hinder her from trying
certain sexual techniques. Yet through the trust she has in you,
she may experiment with ideas and become more open minded to
things that before were taboo. It is a man’s responsibility to real-
ize this great virtue and respect it because he may have the ability,
through her trust, to pervert or damage the relationship. Keep in
mind that once a woman loses trust in her lover for any reason,
that same trust may be hard to regain.

10 When a Man Makes Love to a Woman
_________________________________________________________________________________________ A Woman’s Desire

It is natural for women to desire to be submissive and con-
sumed with a man’s love, sexual masculinity and security. There
is a tender yearning women have to be held, loved and touched,
but also there is an instinctive desire they have to yield to the non-
threatening, aggression of a man’s sexuality which may be the
fuel for deep, passionate desire in a woman.

To put it in a few words, there are times to romantically
hold a woman and times to make love all night long.


Actions Not Words (Men)

Avoid bragging about your new abilities. The trusting
woman will surely envision the fortress you have set before her,
only to see it crumble if her expectations are not met. The witty
woman will call it a bluff and surely put you in your place. You
must prove yourself with your actions not your words, as you al-
low for times of learning and experimenting together.

Part 1
Before Sex

Chapter 1


Mind and Body


Your mind is your most powerful asset, and you must be
able to control it. Fear and worry are not options for being a great
lover. Confidence in yourself is your responsibility and is depend-
ent on how your mind is conditioned to perceive the life around
you. Conditioning your mind for positive results not only includes
positive actions, but also includes guarding your mind from con-
stant negativity or stress. Everyone is different so you have to be
the judge of what is stressful to you. The constant monotony of
most local news stations and their endless reports of murder and
car theft is enough to drive one up the wall, hence negative condi-
tioning. One may automatically perceive local news as bad news
and negative. It is one’s choice to do so. Someone else may see
the same news program as informative and a privilege.

Being around negative, unhappy, or stressed out people
can also stress you out. Keep in mind though, life is only how one
perceives it to be through the identity he or she perceive them-
selves to have.

If you are an accountant and feel that being an accountant
is your identity, then you will have no identity if you loose your
job. But if you have established your identity as a child of