Complete Idiots Guide To Amazing Sex | Page 3

Lick It Good
148
Put Your Mouth Around That
151
Spit or Swallow?
154
Safer Oral Sex
156
More Oral Sex Variations
156
Lying Down, Standing, Sitting Up, and Squatting
156

Sixty-Nine Is So Fine157
Exotic Locations
157
Hot and Cold Sensations
158
Playing with Food
158
Using Sex Toys During Oral Sex
158
Oral-Anal Contact
159
All-over Oral Pleasure
159
Part 4: Positions and Playtime
163
14 Sexual Positions
165
Man-on-Top
166
Woman-on-Top
168
Sex from Behind
169
Side-by-Side
170
Sitting
171
Standing
172
Strange Names for Sexy Positions
174
Scissors
174
The Crab
175

The Snake175
The Rabbit
176
The Wheelbarrow
177
Anal Sex
178
15 Pillow Talk
181
Orgasms After Intercourse
182
Aftercare
182
What If You Want to Fall Asleep?
184
What's There to Talk About?
184

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Encore! Encore!185
Sex on the Run
186
Creative Afterplay Activities
186
16 Variety Is the Spice of Sex
189
All the Right Moves
190
Push It, Push It Real Good
190
Body Double
191
Prop to It!
192
Incredible Edibles
192
Wet and Wild
193
Paint-by-Touch
194
Soft Touches and Tickles
194
Timing Is Everything
194
The Quickie
194
The Sex Weekend
195
Rocking 'Round the Clock
195
Sex in Dreamland
196

Touch Me in the Morning196
Lunch Box Special
196
Open House
197
Bathroom Bawdiness
197
Now You're Cooking
197
Eating In
198
Loving in the Living Room
198
Stairway to Heaven
198
Attic Antics
198
Basement Basics
199
Pull On In
199
No Vacancies
199
Sex in the Great Outdoors
200
Backyard Parties
200
Woody the Wood Pecker
200
Mountain Highs
201
Sand, Surf, and Sensuality
201
Playing Around on the Playground
202

Jump in the Deep End202
Hot Stuff in the Hot Tub
202
A Bird's Eye View
202
When Intimate Isn't Necessarily Private
203
Going Up, Going Down
203
What a Way to Make a Living
204
School Spirit
204
Let's Get Physical
204
Sex on the Move
205
Frequent Flyer's Smiles
205
You Drove Me to It
205
Staying on Track
206
Taxi Trysts
206
Hop on the Harley
206

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Part 5: Sexual Adventures209
17 Imagine That! Your Sexual Fantasies
211
In Your Dreams!
212
Tonight's Top 10 List
214
Sharing Your Fantasies
219
When Fantasy Becomes Reality
221
Fun with Fantasies
222
18 Sexy Sights and Sounds
225
Aural Sex
226
Call of the Wild
228
Nude Pictures
229
Sexy Stories
230
Porn Flicks
231
Renting
232
Making Your Own
233
Byte Me and Suck My Hard Drive
234
Sex Sites: Chasing the Links
234

Sex Chats: The Sound of One Hand Typing236
19 What Would Barbie Think? Fun with Sex Toys
239
Is That a Dildo in Your Pocket or Are You Just Glad to See Me?
240
Vibrators: Getting a Buzz On
242
And There's More!
244
I Like That, Butt This Feels Great!
244
Ancient Chinese Secret?
245
Toys for Boys
246
Blown Up or Tied Up
247
Do-It-Yourself Sex Toys
247
Lovin', Not Druggin'
248
20 Swingers and Dominants and Men in Skirts, Oh My!
251
Role Playing: Make-Believe and Make Out
252
Crossdressing: What's Under That Skirt?
253
Fetishes: May I Touch Your Feet?
256
Group Sex: All Together Now
257
S/M: Taking the Blindfold Off
260
Can Alternative Sex Go Too Far?
264

21 Tantric Sex: The Big Om267
What Is Tantra?
268
Is Tantra for You?
268
The Tantric Way
269
Breathing in Harmony
269
How You Balance Each Other
270
Beginning Tantric Sex
270

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Riding the Wave272
Tantric Sexual Positions
273
Lotus Sex Positions
273
Clasping Position
274
Cupped Position
274
The Full-Body Orgasm
274
Withholding Ejaculation
275
How Tantra Can Improve Your Sex Life
277
Part 6: Unique Sexual Issues
279
22 Happy to Be Gay
281
Labels Are for Cans
282
The Sexual Orientation Continuum
282
Bi the Way
284
Why Are People Gay?
286
Discovering and Accepting Homosexuality
287
Come Out, Come Out, Whoever You Are
288
Pride and Prejudice
290

So, What Exactly Do You Do in Bed?291
23 Sex and Pregnancy: What Are You Doing for the Next Nine Months?
295
Changing Shape
296
Sex During Pregnancy
297
The Right Position at the Right Time
299
Sex Do's and Don'ts
300
More Ways to Enjoy Each Other
301
How Do Men Feel About Sex During Pregnancy?
301
Mother Lovin': Sex After the Baby
303
Physical Challenges
303
Emotional Challenges
304
Too Pooped to Pop?
305
Quality Time
305
24 Experience Counts: Sex and Aging
307
Women and Aging
308
Her Good Old Body
308
The Change of Life
309
Male Issues About Sex and Aging
310

You Can't Keep a Good (Old) Man Down311
Does My Hair Look Better If I Part It This Way?
312
Health and Sex for Aging Men and Women
312
Men and Women Are Using It, Not Losing It
314

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Part 7: To Your Sexual Health317
25 Get in Control: Birth Control
319
Asking Your Partner to Choose and Use
319
Are There Ever “Safe” Times of the Month?
320
Choosing Birth Control
321
It's a Hormonal Thing
321
Birth Control Pills
322
Norplant
323
Depo-Provera: The Birth Control Shot
323
Intrauterine Device (IUD)
324
Putting Up Barriers
325
His Condom
325
Her Condom
328
Vaginal Spermicides
328
Diaphragms and Cervical Caps
329
More Methods for Consideration
329
Sterilization
329

Fertility Awareness Methods (FAMs)330
Abstinence
331
Which Method Is Best for You?
331
When All Else Fails, You Still Have Options
332
The Morning After Pill
332
RU486
333
Abortion
333
Adoption
334
26 Better Safer Than Sorry
335
Talking About Safer Sex
336
How to Talk About STDs
336
What If You Know You Have an STD?
337
The ABC of STDs
337
Chlamydia
338
Herpes
338
Genital Warts (HPV)
339
Gonorrhea
339
Syphilis
339

Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID)340
Urinary Tract Infection
340
Vaginitis
340
Crabs
341
Internal Parasites
341
Hepatitis B
342
Human Immunodeficiency Virus (HIV) and Acquired Immunodeficiency
Syndrome (AIDS)
342
What Are Your Symptoms?
344
Checking for STDs
344

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Testing for HIV345
Condoms and Safer Sex
346
27 Take a Good Look—These Exams Save Lives
347
Your Healthy Breasts
348
How to Perform a Breast Self-Exam (BSE)
348
What If You Find a Lump?
350
It Only Comes Once a Year: The Gynecological Exam
350
Men and Sexual Health
353
The Testicular Self-Exam: You've Got Balls, Check 'Em Out
353
Just Relax, It's the Prostate Exam
354
28 Overcoming Sexual Problems
357
Not in the Mood: Lack of Desire
358
Waiting for the O: Women Who Have Never Had an Orgasm
359
Intercourse Without Orgasms
362
Premature Ejaculation
362
5, 6, 7, 8—Now's the Time to Stop and Wait
363
Please Me, Squeeze Me
364

When It's Hard to Get Hard365
Viagra: The Great Blue Hope?
366
Pump It Up
367
Painful Intercourse
367
Vaginismus
368
Male and Female Performance Anxiety
368
Sex Therapy: Getting Professional Help
369
What Happens in Sex Therapy?
369
Sensate Focus
370
What Is a “Sex Surrogate”?
370
Choosing a Sex Therapist
371
Appendices  
A Amazing Sex from A to Z
373
B Get in Touch with Your Sexuality
385
Index
389

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INTRODUCTION
Just what is amazing sex? There are hundreds, or maybe even thousands, o\
f
different positions, settings, and stimuli that can all be amazing. But \
amazing sex
is more than just feeling good. Amazing sex is ultimately about what mak\
es you
feel connected, sensual, and human. The most amazing sex is also sex tha\
t is done
responsibly, and often, lovingly.
Some people might think that they don't need a book to teach