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19 What Would Barbie Think? Fun with Sex Toys
Have you wondered how to use vibrators and dildoes? Learn how they are u\
sed,
as well as some more exotic toys, too.239
20 Swingers and Dominants and Men in Skirts, Oh My!
Sexual variation comes in all styles, from group sex to fetishes, S/M to\

crossdressing. Learn about them all.
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21 Tantric Sex: The Big Om
Spiritual sex can bring partners closer together. Do you think this migh\
t be for
you?
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Part 6: Unique Sexual Issues279
22 Happy to Be Gay
Sexual orientation is just one aspect of who you are. Understand and cop\
e with
being gay, lesbian, or bisexual.
281
23 Sex and Pregnancy: What Are You Doing for the Next Nine Months?
How to enjoy your sexuality during pregnancy and after the baby.
295
24 Experience Counts: Sex and Aging
Your body changes as you age, but you can still keep your sex life excit\
ing well
into your golden years.
307
Part 7: To Your Sexual Health
317
25 Get in Control: Birth Control
Understand which birth control choices are right for you.
319
26 Better Safer Than Sorry
Great sex also means healthy sex. Learn how to protect yourself from sex\
ually
transmitted diseases.
335
27 Take a Good Look—These Exams Save Lives
Breast self-exams, testicular self-exams, and exams that doctors perform\
can help
keep you in tip-top sexual health.
347
28 Overcoming Sexual Problems
How to get over the most common sexual problems. Learn what sex therapy \
is and
whether you might need it.
357
Appendices
373
A Amazing Sex from A to Z
Here you'll find a glossary of terms related to sex that were used in th\
is book.
373

B Get in Touch with Your Sexuality
This is a list of resources for more information and referrals regarding\
issues
that are discussed in this book.385
Index
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CONTENTS
Part 1: Say Yes to Amazing Sex1
1 Sexuality Today
3
Are You Sex Savvy?
4
From Sexual Revolution to Sexual Evolution
7
Do Sex Trends Exist?
8
Is Everyone Doing It?
10
Married or Single: Does It Make a Difference?
11
Young or Old: Does It Make a Difference?
12
There's More Than One Reason to Have Sex
13
2 Sexpectations: Understanding Your Sexual Beliefs
17
Staking Your Claim on Sexual Pleasure
18
Remembering Your Sexual Influences
19
Myths About Sex
21
Your Attitude Adjustment
22
Talking About Your Sexual Past
23

3 Sex with (or Without) Love27
This Thing Called Love
27
When and How to Express Your Love
29
From Attraction to Love and Sex
31
Does Love Affect Sex?
31
Monogamy
33
Casual Sex and One Night Stands
34
When Is the Timing Right?
35
4 Sexual Compatibility
37
Finding Someone Who Turns You On
37
What Makes Good Sex?
39
What Do You Want from Your Sex Life?
41
Compatibility Checklist
41
Can You Create Lust and Sexual Compatibility?
43
What Do You Find Sexy?
43
5 Talking About and Initiating Sex
45
Sex Topics
45
How to Talk About Sex
46

Talking (or Not) to Initiate Sex48
Saying “Maybe”
49
Why “No” Must Mean “No”
49
What If Only One of You Wants Sex?
50
Finding Time for Sex
52

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Part 2: Secrets from Below the Belt55
6 Mirror, Mirror on the Wall
57
Am I the Only One Who Hates My Body?
58
Do You Need to Improve the Way You Feel About Your Body?
59
What Do You Dislike About Your Body?
61
Getting Comfortable Getting Nude
62
Getting Comfortable with Your Body During Sex
64
More Steps to a Better Body Image
65
Sexy Is As Sexy Does
67
7 His Private Parts
69
Male Sex Organs: It's What's Inside That Counts
69
The Testes
70
The Scrotum
71
The Epididymis
71
The Vas Deferens
71
The Seminal Vesicles
71
The Prostate Gland
72

The Cowper's Glands72
Penis Power
72
The Glans
72
The Foreskin
73
The Frenulum
73
Why “Boner” Is a Misnomer
74
The What's What of Sperm and Semen
74
The Heads and Tails of Sperm
75
How Much Sperm Is in Semen?
75
Ejaculation and Orgasm
76
Surprise! It's Not About Size
77
8 Her Secret Garden
79
Female Sex Organs: What's Going on Down There?
80
The Ovaries
80
The Fallopian Tubes
81
The Uterus
81
The Cervix
82
Vagina Is for Lovers
82

The Urinary Opening and Vaginal Opening82
The Hymen
83
The Vulva
83
The Clitoris
85
“G” Marks the Spot
85
Female Ejaculation
86
These Are Two of Her Favorite Things: Breasts
86
Oh, Baby!
88

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Blood, Sweat, and Tears89
Blood, Sweat, and…Orgasm
90
PMS—The Storm Before the Calm
90
Feminine Hygiene: Say Yes to the Shower and No to the Douche
91
9 It's a Turn-On: Your Sexual Response
93
Here Comes That Loving Feeling
94
Desire
94
Arousal
95
Plateau
95
Orgasm
96
Resolution
96
The Big “O”
97
Female Orgasms
97
Male Orgasms
98
Multiple Orgasms—The More the Merrier?
99
Simultaneous Orgasms—Timing Isn't Everything
99
Orgasm Myths
100

Faking It100
10 Master of Your Domain
103
Mmmmm Is for Masturbation
104
Health Benefits of Masturbation
105
Who Does It and How Much?
105
Different Strokes for Different Folks
107
Hands-On Experience
109
Do You Know What You Like?
110
Touch Me, Touch You
112
Improving Your Sex Life Through Masturbation
113
Working Out Your Love Muscles
113
Part 3: Fantastic Foreplay
117
11 The Seduction
119
What Is Foreplay?
119
Get into the Mood
120
Transform Your Home into a Love Nest
121
Creating a Sensuous Feast
123
Saying Sexy, Subtle Things
125

Giving Affection126
A Kiss Is Just a Kiss…or Is It?
126
Warming Up
127
Mouth to Mouth
127
The French Kiss
128
Coming Up for Air
129
Dressing to Turn on Your Lover
129
Strip It, Strip It Good
130

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12 Reach Out and Touch Someone133
What Are Your Erogenous Zones?
134
How to Give a Sensual Massage
135
Lathering Up in the Shower or Bath
136
How to Give Him a Good Orgasm with Your Hand
138
How to Bring Her to Orgasm with Your Hand
140
Mutual Masturbation: Would You Like a Hand with That?
142
More Ways to Keep in Touch
144
13 Mouthing Off
145
Why Oral Sex Is Amazing
146
What to Do If You Have Inhibitions About Oral Sex
146
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