untrained and unfitted for the real duties of 
living. 
Hurry is the deathblow to calmness, to dignity, to poise. The old-time 
courtesy went out when the new-time hurry came in. Hurry is the father 
of dyspepsia. In the rush of our national life, the bolting of food has 
become a national vice. The words "Quick Lunches" might properly be 
placed on thousands of headstones in our cemeteries. Man forgets that 
he is the only animal that dines; the others merely feed. Why does he 
abrogate his right to dine and go to the end of the line with the mere 
feeders? His self-respecting stomach rebels, and expresses its 
indignation by indigestion. Then man has to go through life with a little 
bottle of pepsin tablets in his vest-pocket. He is but another victim to
this craze for speed. Hurry means the breakdown of the nerves. It is the 
royal road to nervous prostration. 
Everything that is great in life is the product of slow growth; the newer, 
and greater, and higher, and nobler the work, the slower is its growth, 
the surer is its lasting success. Mushrooms attain their full power in a 
night; oaks require decades. A fad lives its life in a few weeks; a 
philosophy lives through generations and centuries. If you are sure you 
are right, do not let the voice of the world, or of friends, or of family 
swerve you for a moment from your purpose. Accept slow growth if it 
must be slow, and know the results must come, as you would accept the 
long, lonely hours of the night,--with absolute assurance that the 
heavy-leaded moments must bring the morning. 
Let us as individuals banish the word "Hurry" from our lives. Let us 
care for nothing so much that we would pay honor and self-respect as 
the price of hurrying it. Let us cultivate calmness, restfulness, poise, 
sweetness,--doing our best, bearing all things as bravely as we can; 
living our life undisturbed by the prosperity of the wicked or the malice 
of the envious. Let us not be impatient, chafing at delay, fretting over 
failure, wearying over results, and weakening under opposition. Let us 
ever turn our face toward the future with confidence and trust, with the 
calmness of a life in harmony with itself, true to its ideals, and slowly 
and constantly progressing toward their realization. 
Let us see that cowardly word Hurry in all its most degenerating phases, 
let us see that it ever kills truth, loyalty, thoroughness; and let us 
determine that, day by day, we will seek more and more to substitute 
for it the calmness and repose of a true life, nobly lived. 
 
III 
The Power of Personal Influence 
 
The only responsibility that a man cannot evade in this life is the one he 
thinks of least,--his personal influence. Man's conscious influence, 
when he is on dress-parade, when he is posing to impress those around 
him,--is woefully small. But his unconscious influence, the silent, 
subtle radiation of his personality, the effect of his words and acts, the 
trifles he never considers,--is tremendous. Every moment of life he is
changing to a degree the life of the whole world. Every man has an 
atmosphere which is affecting every other. So silent and unconsciously 
is this influence working, that man may forget that it exists. 
All the forces of Nature,--heat, light, electricity and gravitation,-- are 
silent and invisible. We never see them; we only know that they exist 
by seeing the effects they produce. In all Nature the wonders of the 
"seen" are dwarfed into insignificance when compared with the majesty 
and glory of the "unseen." The great sun itself does not supply enough 
heat and light to sustain animal and vegetable life on the earth. We are 
dependent for nearly half of our light and heat upon the stars, and the 
greater part of this supply of life-giving energy comes from invisible 
stars, millions of miles from the earth. In a thousand ways Nature 
constantly seeks to lead men to a keener and deeper realization of the 
power and the wonder of the invisible. 
Into the hands of every individual is given a marvellous power for good 
or for evil,--the silent, unconscious, unseen influence of his life. This is 
simply the constant radiation of what a man really is, not what he 
pretends to be. Every man, by his mere living, is radiating sympathy, or 
sorrow, or morbidness, or cynicism, or happiness, or hope, or any of a 
hundred other qualities. Life is a state of constant radiation and 
absorption; to exist is to radiate; to exist is to be the recipient of 
radiations. 
There are men and women whose presence seems to radiate sunshine, 
cheer and optimism. You feel calmed and rested and restored in a 
moment to    
    
		
	
	
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