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c lue d  in to a fter  a  whil e  th a t  we 
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c a ution , sa ys  Susan  Rab in ,  auth or 
o f H ow  To  Attra ct  A nyo n e,  A nytim e, 
A nyp la ce ,  The  Sm art  Guid e  To 
F lir tin g  (P en gu in ).   
  " M ake  it f un  an d an  ad ve n tu re .  It 
m ake s  pe op le  fe e l g o od ,"  she  sa ys , 
ad din g  th a t  man y  pe op le  fa il 
be ca u se  th ey  don't  kn o w  how  to 
en jo y  an d  se n d o ut sig na ls .   
  " T he re  sh o uld  be  no p re ssu re .  Y ou 
j u st  ha ve  to  lo ok  at  bab ie s  to  se e 
ho w  easy  it  ca n  be.  Bab ie s  are 
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