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Attraction Isn’t
A Choice
By David DeAngelo
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TABLE OF CONTENTS
Introduction...............................................................9
Seducing Women Feels Manipulative...............................................................................12
Part 1: Attraction Isn’t A Choice...................................14
Chapter 1: Attraction Isn’t A Choice...............................15
An Open Letter From A Lonely, Beautiful Woman To Herself..............................................15
Meeting Women Isn’t Magic............................................................................................16
The Power Of Attraction.................................................................................................17
Attraction Is Selfish.......................................................................................................18
Men, Women, And Attraction..........................................................................................18
My Concept Of Attraction...............................................................................................20
An Exercise To Help You Start Thinking Differently...........................................................23
My Quick Take On Relationships.....................................................................................24
From The Mailbag..........................................................................................................24
Following Common Social Courtesy Is Bad For Attraction..................................................28
Filters And Amplifiers.....................................................................................................28
Women Use Clues To Generalize.....................................................................................29
Do You Get It Or Not?....................................................................................................31
From The Mailbag..........................................................................................................32
Chapter 2: Preparing for Change...................................35
YOU CAN be Successful with Women...............................................................................37
It Doesn’t Work the Way You Think It Does.....................................................................40
Living In an Ideal World.................................................................................................40
The Nice Guy’s ‘Real-Self’ is ‘Real Manipulation’...............................................................41
You Meet Her Persona First............................................................................................43
We Think Women Are Attracted the Same Way We Are.....................................................44
Elusive Obvious: What They Actually Want Is Already In You.............................................44
REMEMBER… It’s OK to Be a Man....................................................................................45
Limiting Beliefs And Change...........................................................................................46
Fear of Failure and Not Taking Action..............................................................................46
Fearing Failure on the Approach.....................................................................................47
Fearing the Unknown.....................................................................................................49
Abundance and Scarcity.................................................................................................49
Taking Rejection Personally............................................................................................51
Competing With Other Guys...........................................................................................52
Infinite Justice..............................................................................................................52
Fear And The Kiss Test..................................................................................................53
The Sex Obligation........................................................................................................53
Preparing for Change: Positive Mindsets Bring Improvement.............................................54
Lots of Preparation for a Few Key Moments.....................................................................54
You CAN “Get It”...........................................................................................................54
Default Behavior vs. Taking Charge................................................................................55

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Speed of Implementation...............................................................................................55
Updating Patterns..........................................................................................................56
Updating Your Pattern for Talking to Attractive Women.....................................................57
Fear.............................................................................................................................58
Expecting Instant Gratification........................................................................................59
Natural Variation And Success Patterns...........................................................................61
Avoiding Averages.........................................................................................................61
Decision Leadership.......................................................................................................61
Chapter 3: The Evolution and Biology of Attraction...........63
3.1 HOW ATTRACTION CAN BE ILLOGICAL......................................................................63
The Triune Brain...........................................................................................................63
Internal Mental Power Struggles.....................................................................................65
Attraction As A Complex “Chemical Reaction”..................................................................66
3.2 WHY ATTRACTION IS ILLOGICAL & WHAT DOES ATTRACT WOMEN..............................67
Replicators...................................................................................................................67
The “Mating Mind”.........................................................................................................68
The Economics of Sex....................................................................................................69
The ‘Keep-Him’ Strategy................................................................................................70
Why Women Cheat........................................................................................................71
Competition in Sexual Evolution......................................................................................72
Attraction, at Last.........................................................................................................72
3.3 ATTRACTIVE MEN....................................................................................................74
Ethology and the Study of Animals..................................................................................74
You Must Trigger The Attraction......................................................................................75
Tastes Good, Not Good For You......................................................................................76
The Animal Inside.........................................................................................................76
The Pre-Programmed Man Archetype Homing Mechanism.................................................77
3.4 LET GO OF EVOLUTIONARY HANG-UPS......................................................................78
We Can Change and Reprogram Ourselves......................................................................78
Competition..................................................................................................................78
Remembering and Fearing Failures Over Successes..........................................................79
Part 2: Creating Attraction............................................80
Chapter 4: The Hidden Languages Of Attraction................81
Secret Languages And “The Matrix”................................................................................81
Finding Hidden Patterns.................................................................................................81
Unspoken Languages.....................................................................................................82
The Universal Language.................................................................................................83
The Language of Secret Societies....................................................................................86
The Series of Key Languages and How to Approach Them.................................................87
Body Language.............................................................................................................88
Posture........................................................................................................................89
…Slow and Calculated Movements and Gestures...............................................................89
The Most Powerful Secret Language: Innate Body Language.............................................90

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The Hidden Language of Eye Contact..............................................................................90
Communicating with Tone of Voice..................................................................................91
The Secret Language of Cocky Comedy...........................................................................92
You Can’t Always Spell It Out For Her..............................................................................93
The Tension and Energy of Two Magnets Wrapped by a Rubber Band.................................94
The Secret Language of Sex...........................................................................................95
The Secret Language of Flirting and Sexual Chemistry......................................................97
The Usual And The Unusual............................................................................................99
The Strength To Be Yourself.........................................................................................100
The Hidden Language of Self-Confidence.......................................................................100
You Don’t Have to Agree with Rejection.........................................................................101
Beliefs to Express Through Hidden Languages................................................................103
Chapter 5: Building Attraction.....................................106
Social Proof................................................................................................................106
The Value of Social Proof..............................................................................................106
Connecting to Social Proof............................................................................................107
Becoming an Addiction.................................................................................................110
The Obsession Formula................................................................................................111
Playing Hard to Get.....................................................................................................112
Two Steps Forward, One Step Back...............................................................................113
Give Her Just a Taste...................................................................................................115
Give Her the Gift of Missing You....................................................................................115
Chapter 6: Attitude and Composure..............................116
The Attitude................................................................................................................116
Why Women Date Bartenders and Other Players............................................................116
The Attitude Is Behind the Words..................................................................................117
James Bond Never Whines...........................................................................................118
Be the Leader.............................................................................................................118
Being Focused on your Goals is Attractive......................................................................119
Do but Don’t Care.......................................................................................................119
James Bond Doesn’t Get Upset.....................................................................................120
Dealing with Tests and Challenges................................................................................120
James Bond Doesn’t Rush Things..................................................................................122
The Attitude Has Mystery, Tension................................................................................122
Women in Demand are Demanding...............................................................................124
The Attitude May Sometimes Be a Burden.....................................................................124
Summary of