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will likely put you into the category of friend, but not lover.
If you don’t believe this, just look around at all the jerks who have sex with hot women. Women
certainly are not having sex with these guys because they are intellectually stimulating. No,
these women are hot and heavy because these men are exciting, romantic, fun, and even a bit
dangerous.
The solution? Don’t give up being interesting and nice (that too would be a fatal error), just
bring out other parts of your personality. Bring out the romantic and let that guide you into
sweeping a woman off her feet. Put yourself in her position and f igure out what would turn her
on and excite her. If you f ind yourself spending time discussing “fascinating” topics, but not
romantic ones, change the subject back to her beauty. Memorize poetry and whisper passages
into her ear.
MYTH# 3 BE A WOMAN’S THERAPIST AND YOU’LL GET SEX
Along the same lines as being a nice guy, we’ve seen this myth played out time and time again
by desperate fools trying to score. The ploy usually works this way: A horny guy is a friend
with a woman he wants to date. He thinks that if she opens up to him emotionally then it will
likely lead to sex. He thinks that if he can solve her emotional problems she will want to date
him. But, to his surprise, things pan out differently. Suddenly she starts to discuss every prob-
lem in her life with him. The guy thinks this is good and listens more and more and more to her
complaints. In fact, he thinks that the more he listens to her, the better the chances are of her
going to bed with him. She starts crying on his shoulder more frequently and he starts taking
her out for ice cream, expensive dinners, and even loan her money when she becomes too
depressed to work. Now it turns ugly. She begins telling him about her problems with other
men. Our novice therapist stays in the role of advice-giver. Eventually she stars dating the jerks
and coming to him for advice.
Never be a therapist to a woman. The most important thing in dealing with a woman is to
make your romantic interests known right away so she thinks of you as a potential lover, not a
friend. When you are become a conf idant to a woman she begins to associate you with her neg-
ative emotions and negative experiences, putting you further out of the running for being her
lover. If you are in this position with any woman right now, stop being the therapist today. You
are wasting your time and avoiding being out in the world pursuing other women. Get out now
while you still have a chance.
MYTH#4 THERE ARE A LIMITED NUMBER OF AVAILABLE WOMEN.
This is the type of myth promoted by whiners. They search for lame reasons why they can’t
meet women when in fact, there is no evidence anywhere to back up their claim. Does the high
percentage of divorce and affairs justify this myth? No. Does the high number of singles (82
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million in the United States) prove that this is indeed a fact? No. Does the large number of per-
sonals ads reflect this to be true? No. That is why it is called a myth and simply unfounded.
Enough said.
MYTH#5 YOU’RE NOT ATTRACTIVE ENOUGH TO GET WOMEN.
In their quieter moments, many men believe that there is something fundamentally wrong with
them. They truly think some part of them is indelibly flawed and women will reject them for it.
To this we say: YOU ARE WRONG! After studying this topic exhaustively, we have noticed that
neither the size of a man’s belly or even the size of his IQ has any bearing on his ability to get
women. We’ve seen fat men with models, short men with sexy 21 year olds, and guys so ugly
that they looked like they were beaten with a bag of quarters, cuddling with hot and sexy babes.
We recently spotted an obese 45-year old guy flirting with every hot woman in a crowded bar.
They stared into his eyes, fascinated and turned on by his conf idence and wit. He made no
apologies for his size or ugliness and several women went for it.
You can be a nerd with a pen protector and get tons of sex if you have the necessary conf i-
dence. No matter what you look like women will want you if you demonstrate conf idence.
MYTH#6 GETTING WOMEN IS TOO TIME CONSUMING OR DIFFICULT.
Guys complain to us all the time that getting women is as complex as brain surgery. But it need
not be. There are simple skills you can learn and actions you can take today that will have you
meeting women like never before.
For instance, the easiest places to meet women are in bookstores, coffee shops, health clubs,
and in restaurants. The trick is to go to these