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deal towards it. Honour and
obedience is your first duty towards your parents. There is nothing
manly in disobedience. Honour and obey, readily and cheerfully. Not
simply obedient to father because he might thrash you; and disobedient
to mother because she cannot compel you. No, the truest honour in a
boy is when mother can thoroughly trust him--trust him to obey her
because she is mother.
Brothers and sisters are often a trouble. "How those children do nag?"
"Never can leave those boys together." "He's sure to teaze her if I leave
them alone." Don't be a bully either to your brothers or sisters. Don't be
selfish and claim all you can for yourself. Share and share alike should
be the rule, and gentleness towards the girls and little ones.
School will help to take the nonsense out of you; you cannot have it all
your own way there. Boys will be boys, is a very common expression,
and it would be very funny indeed if boys did not turn out to be boys,
but that is no reason that boys should be rude or cruel, and in fact "little
cubs." Quarrels there will be sometimes--very often for no real reason,
sometimes for a good cause. If you have one fight it out then and there,
and bear no malice afterwards. I would rather see a fair fight and have
done with it, than keeping up a nasty quarrel, and trying to spite one
another in little mean ways. There is too often a want of real honour
amongst boys. Telling tales of one another seems to be the fashion, and
the favourite way of paying off old scores. There are of course times
when a boy must speak out against wrong, even at the risk of being
counted a sneak, but, as a rule, boys who delight in telling tales, and
who have not the sense of honour to stick by one another are a very
poor lot.

Do your school work thoroughly. Idleness is not only wrong but foolish.
There is a time for work and a time for play. Learn as much as you can
and learn thoroughly if you want to be of any use in after life. A boy's
religion is not a thing that shows very much on the surface, or that he is
very likely to talk much about, but it must be in him if he is any worth.
Boys and girls alike should learn from their mother to say their prayers
night and morning, and when they become too old, or mother too busy
for them to say them at her knee, they should never omit to say them by
themselves. I heard the other day of a rough labouring man, who on his
death bed sent for the priest of his parish. He said he had never been
inside a Church since he had been a man. He had done his work
honestly, and lived steadily, but had altogether got out of the way of
going to Church. There was one thing, however, that he had always
done. Long years ago, as a lad, he had promised his mother never to get
up in the morning or go to bed at night without saying his prayers. This
promise he had kept faithfully. Night and morning that rough strong
man had knelt and said the same prayers which he had first learnt at his
mother's knees. Those prayers had been heard and had brought their
blessing to him. Church going on Sunday is as important as daily
prayers. A Sunday morning should never be allowed to pass without
seeing you at Church. Lie a bed on Sunday morning is the devil's
version of the fourth commandment. There is plenty of time on Sunday
for Church as well as for walks and talks. Sunday is not to be a
miserable day, or all Church and prayers, but God first and then
ourselves. Sunday school you will most likely be sent to as long as you
go to day school, and you will be wise not to give it up as soon as you
are what you would call your own master.
Both home and school ought to have their pleasures as well as their
work. Do your work thoroughly, and do your pleasures thoroughly also.
Share your pleasures with the others, and with father and mother. You
can give much pleasure to father and mother, as well as to yourselves,
if you try.
Love God and love your home--be obedient, truthful, and
plucky--standing up for the right, and not ashamed to refuse to join in

the wrong; and your home and school days will train you well for your
work in life.

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