the most perfect things in 
my life." 
An Eastern professor, who had visited at our home from time to time 
wrote: "You have lost one of the finest husbands I have ever known. 
Ever since I have known the Parker family, I have considered their 
home life as ideal. I had hoped that the too few hours I spent in your 
home might be multiplied many times in coming years. . . . I have 
never known a man more in love with a woman than Carl was with 
you." 
So I write of him for these reasons: because I must, to ease my own 
pent-up feelings; because his life was so well worth writing about; 
because so many friends have sent word to me: "Some day, when you 
have the time, I hope you will sit down and write me about Carl"--the 
newer friends asking especially about his earlier years, the older friends 
wishing to know of his later interests, and especially of the last months, 
and of--what I have written to no one as yet--his death. I can answer 
them all this way. 
And, lastly, there is the most intimate reason of all. I want our children 
to know about their father--not just his academic worth, his public
career, but the life he led from day to day. If I live till they are old 
enough to understand, I, of course, can tell them. If not, how are they to 
know? And so, in the last instance, this is a document for them. 
C.S.P. March 17, 1919 
 
AN AMERICAN IDYLL 
CHAPTER I 
Such hosts of memories come tumbling in on me. More than fifteen 
years ago, on September 3, 1903, I met Carl Parker. He had just 
returned to college, two weeks late for the beginning of his Senior year. 
There was much concern among his friends, for he had gone on a two 
months' hunting-trip into the wilds of Idaho, and had planned to return 
in time for college. I met him his first afternoon in Berkeley. He was on 
the top of a step-ladder, helping put up an awning for our sorority 
dance that evening, uttering his proverbial joyous banter to any one 
who came along, be it the man with the cakes, the sedate house-mother, 
fellow awning-hangers, or the girls busying about. 
Thus he was introduced to me--a Freshman of two weeks. He called 
down gayly, "How do you do, young lady?" Within a week we were 
fast friends, I looking up to him as a Freshman would to a Senior, and a 
Senior seven years older than herself at that. Within a month I 
remember deciding that, if ever I became engaged, I would tell Carl 
Parker before I told any one else on earth! 
After about two months, he called one evening with his pictures of 
Idaho. Such a treat as my mountain-loving soul did have! I still have 
the map he drew that night, with the trails and camping-places marked. 
And I said, innocence itself, "I'm going to Idaho on my honeymoon!" 
And he said, "I'm not going to marry till I find a girl who wants to go to 
Idaho on her honeymoon!" Then we both laughed. 
But the deciding event in his eyes was when we planned our first long
walk in the Berkeley hills for a certain Saturday, November 22, and 
that morning it rained. One of the tenets I was brought up on by my 
father was that bad weather was never an excuse for postponing 
anything; so I took it for granted that we would start on our walk as 
planned. 
Carl telephoned anon and said, "Of course the walk is off." 
"But why?" I asked. 
"The rain!" he answered. 
"As if that makes any difference!" 
At which he gasped a little and said all right, he'd be around in a minute; 
which he was, in his Idaho outfit, the lunch he had suggested being 
entirely responsible for bulging one pocket. Off we started in the rain, 
and such a day as we had! We climbed Grizzly Peak,--only we did not 
know it for the fog and rain,--and just over the summit, in the shelter of 
a very drippy oak tree, we sat down for lunch. A fairly sanctified 
expression came over Carl's face as he drew forth a rather damp and 
frayed-looking paper-bag--as a king might look who uncovered the 
chest of his most precious court jewels before a courtier deemed worthy 
of that honor. And before my puzzled and somewhat doubtful eyes he 
spread his treasure--jerked bear-meat, nothing but jerked bear-meat. I 
never had seen jerked anything, let alone tasted it. I was used to the 
conventional picnic sandwiches done up in waxed paper, plus a stuffed 
egg, fruit, and cake. I was ready for a    
    
		
	
	
	Continue reading on your phone by scaning this QR Code
 
	 	
	
	
	    Tip: The current page has been bookmarked automatically. If you wish to continue reading later, just open the 
Dertz Homepage, and click on the 'continue reading' link at the bottom of the page.
	    
	    
