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Copyright 2003 by Pala Copeland and Al Link
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Table of Contents for this Soul Sex: Tantra for Two PDF Excerpt

Full Table of Contents for: Soul Sex Tantra for Two.........................................................3
Preface.................................................................................................................................5
Introduction........................................................................\
.................................................6
The 4 Freedoms........................................................................\
.......................................6
What Is Tantra?........................................................................\
.......................................7
Who Should Read This Book?........................................................................\
..............12
Benefits of Relationship Tantra........................................................................\
............12
Excerpt from Chapter 1: Relationship as Spiritual Practice.............................................14
How Important Is Your Relationship?........................................................................\
..15
Excerpt from Chapter 2: Creating Love........................................................................\
....16
Recognizing Relationship Fallacies........................................................................\
......16
Excerpt from Chapter 3: Celebrating the Differences......................................................19
Higher Logical Level—The Observer/Witness Consciousness....................................19
Excerpt from Chapter 4: Sex and Spirit – Reuniting Heaven and Earth..........................23
Sex in History........................................................................\
.......................................24
Pleasure as Healer........................................................................\
.................................26
Excerpt from Chapter 5: Mastery and Surrender in the Art of Love................................27
Control........................................................................\
..................................................27
Surrender........................................................................\
...............................................27
Excerpt from Chapter 6: Be Here Now.............................................................................30
Getting There vs. Being Here........................................................................\
...............30
The Curse of Memory........................................................................\
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Learning to Be Here Now........................................................................\
.....................32
Excerpt from Chapter 7: Energy Delights........................................................................\
34
Starting Out........................................................................\
...........................................35
Grounding........................................................................\
.............................................35
But I Don’t Feel Anything!........................................................................\
...................36
Excerpt from Chapter 8: Ejaculation Mastery and Male Multiple Orgasm......................37
3 Types of Orgasm........................................................................\
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Excerpt from Chapter 9: Freeing the Female Orgasm......................................................41
Permission........................................................................\
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Excerpt from Chapter 10: Planning and Ritual in Sacred Loving....................................44
Planning........................................................................\
................................................44
Ritual........................................................................\
.....................................................45
Excerpt from Chapter 11: Erotic, Relaxing, Healing Touch............................................48
Massage.........................................................................................................................51
Excerpt from Chapter 12: Sexual Play..............................................................................54
Location........................................................................\
................................................54
Food and Drink........................................................................\
.....................................55
Excerpt from Chapter 13: Soul Sex Simple Summary.....................................................57
Appendix B: List of Exercises and Practices....................................................................58
About the Authors........................................................................\
.....................................61
Links to More Sacred Sex Resources........................................................................\
.......62
How to Order Soul Sex: Tantra for Two........................................................................\
..64
eBooks Available From 4 Freedoms Relationship Tantra................................................65
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Full Table of Contents for: Soul Sex Tantra for Two

Preface
Introduction
The 4 Freedoms
What Is Tantra?
Who Should Read This Book?
Benefits of Relationship Tantra
Chapter 1: Relationship as Spiritual Practice
How Important Is Your Relationship?
Making Time for Each Other
Keeping Focus on Your Relationship
What Is Spiritual Practice?
Relationship as Sacrament
Chapter 2: Creating Love
Recognizing Relationship Fallacies
The Sexy, Spiritual, Long-Term Relationship Model
Qualities of Relationship vs. Characteristics of Partners
Creating a Relationship Vision
Working With Creative Tension
Lovers’ Ways
Chapter 3: Celebrating the Differences
Higher Logical Level—The Observer/Witness Consciousness
Your Lover as a Mirror for Yourself
Calling Each Other on “Stuff”
Chapter 4: Sex and Spirit: Reuniting Heaven and Earth
Sex in History
Pleasure as Healer
Sex and Spirit as One
Sexual Beliefs Questionnaire
Chapter 5: Mastery and Surrender In the Art of Love
Control
Surrender
Spiritual Surrender: Work and Play
Letting Go of Results
Exercises
Chapter 6: Be Here Now
Getting There vs. Being Here
The Curse of Memory
Learning to Be Here Now
Chapter 7: Energy Delights
Starting Out
Grounding
But I Don’t Feel Anything
Energy Centers—7 Chakras or Tan Tiens
Energy Exercises With a Partner
Sexual Energy Practices
Balancing Male and Female Energies—Yin and Yang
Chapter 8: Ejaculation Mastery and Male Multiple Orgasm
3 Types of Orgasm
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Ejaculation Mastery
Going the Distance—It’s Your Decision
Masturbation
Help From Your Partner
Some Tips for Loving a Man
Prostate Health
Am I Sure I Want to Do This?
Chapter 9: Freeing the Female Orgasm
Permission
Time
Some Tips for Loving a Woman
An Orgasmic Cornucopia
On to the Mystery
Chapter 10: Planning and Ritual In Sacred Loving
Planning
Ritual
Chapter 11: Erotic, Relaxing, Healing Touch
Massage
Acupressure
Reiki
Mix and Match
Chapter 12: Sexual Play
Location
Food and Drink
Erotic Words and Images
Clothing
Scent
Sex Toys
Fantasy
Shake Your Booty
Sounds of Love
Scratch My Back, I’ll Scratch Yours
Playful Positions
Chapter 13: Soul Sex Simple Summary
Appendix A: References and Resources
Books
Music
Videos
Internet Resources
Appendix B: List of Exercises
Chapter Notes
Index
About the Authors
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Soul Sex: Tantra for Two, Pala Copeland and Al Link, New Page Books 2003 - Excerpts

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Preface
Late Autumn 1987
It was the early days of our romance. In Ottawa on a clandestine
lovers’ weekend, we spent most of the time in our hotel room greedily
exploring each other. Late Saturday night, we lay side by side breathing